9 Simple Ways to Be A Positive Mom

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Sometimes being a mom can feel like you’re taking a beating to life. It’s hard to not yell at them, to constantly discipline them (especially if you’re a SAHM), and to make sure that they stay on the right path. There are times when you aren’t going to want to be strong for them and break down and cry. Times can get so trying that you feel defeated like there’s nothing else you can do.

But we have to stay strong and positive to lead them and teach them how to overcome obstacles in their lives. We can only do that by being an example because children learn by watching what you do. This post will show you how to be a positive mom.

Practice gratitude

Practicing gratitude is a great way to become a positive mom. I heard a quote: The Universe doesn’t always give you what you want, but it gives you what you need. That resonated with me deeply because sometimes I am so overwhelmed by taking care of everyone else and house chores that it’s easy to lose sight of what I have. When I started to look at my life from this standpoint, it made me more patient and understanding of my children. I can appreciate the good and hard times because tough times don’t last, but tough moms do.

Gratitude is a powerful tool that can help shift your mindset towards positivity. Please take a few minutes each day to write down things you are grateful for, no matter how small they may seem. This can help you focus on the positive aspects of your life, even when things may feel challenging.

Use Positive Language & Affirmations

It is essential to effectively communicate with your kids, as we are nurturers. Our goal is to continuously nurture our children in health, including the words we speak and believe. & We have that power by speaking life into our family so that our children will grow to be confident adolescents and adults. It also instills confidence in us, knowing we led them in the right direction.

We can learn to use positive language with affirmation words to encourage us. The words we use are potent as they can be a means of life or death, so we must be mindful of our words.

Set Clear Boundaries & Expectations

As a mom, it is crucial to set boundaries and be consistent in implementing them. Decide on your non-negotiables – the things that are important to you and your family. Whatever it is, communicate it clearly to your children and stick to it.

Consistency is critical when it comes to boundaries. Children thrive on routine and knowing what is expected of them. Be consistent with your rules so your children understand what behavior is acceptable and what isn’t. Remember to lead by example because kids learn more from what we do than we say.

Encourage independence & decision-making

As a mom, you have the opportunity to be a positive role model for your children. Encouraging and motivating them can help them develop a positive mindset and a sense of self-worth.

Rather than always pointing out their weaknesses, focus on your children’s strengths. Please encourage them to pursue their passions and celebrate their accomplishments. This can help them develop a positive self-image and a sense of self-confidence.

It’s essential to keep a positive tone when interacting with your children. Rather than constantly criticizing or nagging, try to find positive ways to communicate and encourage. This can help create a positive and supportive family dynamic.

Prioritize quality time & active listening

Open and honest communication is critical to fostering strong and positive relationships with your children.

When your children are talking to you, actively listen and engage with them. Ask questions and show interest in what they have to say. This can help them feel heard and valued.

It’s essential to model open and honest communication with your children. This means being transparent about your own feelings and emotions. This can help your children learn how to express themselves in a healthy and positive way.

Model healthy coping mechanisms & self-care

As a mom, it’s easy to put your own needs last, but it’s essential to take care of yourself to be your best mom. Making time for yourself can help you recharge and feel more balanced.

Make sure to schedule some time for yourself each day, even just a few minutes. This can include reading a book, bathing, walking, or just enjoying a cup of tea. Whatever it is that helps you relax and recharge, make sure to prioritize it.

Recognizing that your needs are as important as anyone else’s. This means learning to say no when necessary and setting healthy boundaries. It’s okay to ask for help when you need it and to prioritize your own self-care.

Foster a growth mindset & learning opportunities

As a mom, you can shape your family’s mindset. Encouraging positive self-talk is a great way to start. Help your children recognize their strengths and focus on positive affirmations. Teach them to talk to themselves in a kind and encouraging way.

Model positivity in your own behavior. Children learn from what they see, so being a positive role model is crucial. Avoid negative self-talk and focus on your strengths and what you can do well. Your children will pick up on your positive attitude and emulate it in their own lives.

Celebrate success

Celebrate progress, not just milestones. As a mom, it’s easy to focus on significant achievements like getting good grades or winning a sports match. Still, it’s essential to recognize the small wins, such as doing their schoolwork without being told or helping a friend in need. Encouraging your children to celebrate these small wins will teach them to appreciate the little things in life.

 Celebrating every win also helps children to develop a routine. When children are celebrated for every success, it makes them feel good and build a routine to continue doing good, which will become a habit. A child would want to begin to do good to feel good about themselves, not to be celebrated by a parent or anyone else.

Embrace imperfection & learn from mistakes

The pressure to be a perfect mom can be overwhelming. And being that children learn by following what we do, we are subconsciously instilling in them that they have to be perfect. It’s important to remember that nobody is perfect, and that’s okay. Acknowledge that mistakes happen and that it’s a part of learning and growing as a parent.

Accepting mistakes, let’s your children know that it is also okay to make mistakes and develop problem-solving skills to move forward. Developing problem-solving skills from past mistakes allows you to be confident in decision-making skills.

Being a positive mom takes time and effort, but it’s worth it. Follow positive self-development skills to step out of your comfort zone to being a positive mom. Simple changes like setting boundaries and focusing on gratitude can make a big difference in your family’s happiness. Embrace imperfection and learn from mistakes, and foster a positive mindset in your family. Remember, you’re doing an AMAZING job as a mom, and your positive energy will help your children thrive.

Being a positive mom is not about perfection or figuring everything out. It’s about being intentional, loving, and supportive, even when things get tough. Incorporating these simple tips into your daily routine can create a more positive and joyful atmosphere for your family. Remember to be kind to yourself, practice self-care, and celebrate the small wins. Your positive attitude and behavior can make a lasting impact on your children and their future. So go ahead and embrace the power of positivity in your parenting journey!

FAQ

What if I don’t have time for self-care?

Self-care doesn’t have to be time-consuming or elaborate. It can be as simple as taking a few deep breaths, going for a short walk, or enjoying a cup of tea. Remember that taking care of yourself is not a luxury but a necessity for your overall well-being.

How can I encourage positive self-talk in my children?

Start by modeling positive self-talk in your own language and behavior. Avoid negative self-talk or self-deprecating comments, and instead, focus on your strengths and progress. Encourage your children to do the same by pointing out their positive qualities and achievements and helping them reframe negative thoughts.

What if my children are resistant to positive changes?

Change can be challenging, especially for children who may be used to certain patterns or attitudes. Be patient and persistent in your efforts, and communicate openly with your children about your intentions and goals. Focus on small, achievable steps, and celebrate progress along the way. Keep in mind that change takes time, and a positive attitude and consistency can go a long way.

How can I let go of guilt and embrace imperfection?

Acknowledge that nobody is perfect and that making mistakes is a natural and necessary part of learning and growing. Practice self-compassion and forgiveness, and focus on what you’ve learned from your experiences rather than dwelling on the past. Remember that imperfection is what makes us human and that you are doing the best you can with what you have.

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4 comments

  • Fareeha Usman says:

    I am also a mom and a newbie in blogging. Your article give me strength to deal with stress and burden. Kepp up the good work

  • Dipak Singh says:

    Interesting and helpful article, specially for mom.

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